I have worked for 20+ years as a business owner of Visiting Angels of West Michigan. I am very grateful for how I have had the privilege of walking alongside so many in their aging journey.
One phrase I often say is there is no shame in…(fill in the blank).
There is no shame in wearing hearing aids, asking a friend for a ride, using a walker in public, asking someone’s name, and/or sharing the struggle or fear of memory loss.
I read this fact today, and it causes me to pause again. It is tragic, and it is an invitation. How will we move into this reality as a community and a culture? How will we create safe spaces in our social and faith communities for those who struggle with memory loss or those who love someone who struggles?
When will we begin to honestly share the longing and need to fully embrace those with memory loss in our social circles and faith communities? We must learn as individuals and leaders to invite with gentle persistence so that our communities include everyone. Our relationships will not be complete if we miss the projected 12.7 million people! There is no shame in aging and all that comes with it. May we love and support each other well every day we are given breath! ❤️ Trish
