Tonight, we had sibling happy hour. We go out every month or two because we believe in being intentional about sitting around the same table and catching up. It is always fun, and the variety of conversations is always stimulating.
Tonight, I walked away, aware that my heart is full.
❤️ It is full because I was with people who are dear to me.
❤️ It is full because my brother-in-law is anticipating the loss of his brother, and it is always good to be together in hard times.
❤️ It is full because we were in a place where people said their names…
It started with a story from my sister, who overheard two friends of my Dad reflecting on how they miss our Dad, Peter. Their reflection was an honest conversation between two friends.
Then, as we were leaving, we ran into Lori. I hadn’t seen Lori in many years, but she introduced herself to my Mom as Len’s 9th-grade date to the banquet and then told us more about their friendship. t was so sweet to hear her talk about Len by name.
On the way home, we commented on how good it is to hear people say their names. To know they are remembered.
So many people say I don’t want to talk about your Dad or your brother because I don’t want to make you sad. I will tell you for most people who have lost a loved one, even if tears flow when you mention their names, it leaves our hearts full that you name those we hold dear. Please say their names and share a story or memory if you have one. Remembering and honoring their lives is a tremendous gift you can offer those of us who miss them! And remember, this isn’t just true about Peter and Len. This. is true about others you know who have died as well. Don’t forget to say their names! ❤️ trish