I attended a seminar this morning. It was good for many reasons. I appreciate that my Church hosts conversations and education about aging. We must recognize that everyone has a unique story and allow that to be how we approach “problem-solving.” in issues surrounding aging.
As someone who has worked in the field of serving an aging population for the last twenty years, may we never let the uncertainty, fear, and dynamics overshadow the fact that there are many good elements to be grateful for in getting older. Tonight, I want to name one: To care for those who once cared for us is one of Life’s highest honors. This does not always mean physical care. This may mean companionship or creating spaces for quality of life to be shared and enjoyed. It doesn’t always mean it is simple or without complications, but when we can reflect, it often brings us to a space of gratitude.
I hope that part of your story, whether caring for, anticipating, caring for, or having cared for, will provoke your heart to grow and strengthen in good ways. If this provokes pain and struggles, I trust you will find someone who can be present with you to process that.
Life is a gift, often with its own complications along the way, but may we always take the time to honor those who have invested in us and helped to shape the people we are today! ❤️trish
Thank you for this blog,Trish. You do this for so many! I learned a lot yesterday and I would like to hear him again. Also, for those of us who are older but able bodied, we also need to care for others. It’s is it easy to sit back and say, I’ve done my part but we are a community that relies on one another.