I have been aware of so much sadness surrounding me in the past weeks. It is a sadness woven into the stories of dear people around me, more than directly affecting me.
Stories of unexpected deaths, tragic accidents, accidental overdoses, and suicide.
I was reminded tonight of a perspective of comfort that came straight from the heart of one of my nieces. The gift of comfort met up with some of the most significant losses: her Dad and her Papa.
What strikes me most in this honest and hope-filled reflection is not the denial of sadness but the presence of God through other people. The gentle gift of showing up and conversation can be soothing to sorrow. The irony of this line:”…and people to rub your back when you woke up crying was the most unexpected source of comfort and joy at my rock bottom.” Oh, to name comfort and joy at your rock bottom, what a provoking thought.
So tonight, if you are in the midst of grief or full of sorrow, if you are struggling with depression or loneliness or wonder if tomorrow has a purpose, consider Olivia’s closing words written below…” remember that we are safe and loved and chosen and seen and that god often ministers to us through other people’s love and it is one of my favorite good gifts that he gives.”
In all these spaces where it is easier to stay alone, in pain, hidden in the darkness, in bed, or isolated from others, please seek out someone to be with and risk being loved and cared for. Maybe someday you, too, will reflect and write words that are honest and offer hope from your rock bottom.
Grace to you and peace from God!
❤️ Trish
