One of my very satisfying and delightful jobs was Adoption Social Work. I loved the intensive home studies meetings with the parents! Such good conversations unfolded as we discussed opening their hearts to bring in a child from another culture and embracing them as their own! I
also prepared the families for the day they got the call that they had been matched. Then, there was often a significant wait for travel, and eventually, it was GOTCHA DAY! Frequently, this whole process takes from 1 to 3 years!
In my early 20s, I went on a mission trip to Russia with my church. We joined up with another Church, and Cathy was the next closest in age to me, so we paired up as roommates. It began a friendship that continues today.
About 18 years ago, Cathy initiated adoption from China as a single parent. She brought home Caili Mae 17 years ago today. I have watched them go from being total strangers bound by Cathy’s commitment to take Caili in and love her forever to creating a life full of adventure and joy.
In 17 years, a mother and daughter have come to know and love one another with a strong bond of love, laughter, honesty, friendship, faith, and prayer.
Do you know someone who has been adopted or who is adopted? Consider asking about their
GOTCHA DAY. Adoption is not a one-and-done thing. It has themes and stories. Curiosity about one’s adoption story, birth country, birth mom, or family are all ways to invite tender conversation. Remember, these stories are Holy Ground, so move with kindness and grace!
I am so grateful Cathy chose to love through Adoption, and in that choice and risk, she was blessed with Caili. My life is so much better with Cathy and Caili in it. I am so grateful for GOTCHA DAY! ❤️ trish
