I loved having young nieces and nephews. Those years were full of adventure; when we gathered, all had fun (regular mediation occurred as well, but we did our best to do that by learning to respect one another.) There was complete joy from ring pops, cheese balls and late night capture the flag. This group of cousins through the years has always had each others backs. They show up for each other in times of deep sorrow and celebrate each other in times of exuberant joy!
And then they all seemed to be getting older, all at once. 😉 They were growing in every way; growing taller, smarter, more socially skilled, becoming more mature in how they engage each other and their world. They began to show preferences about who they spent their time with. 
So, as they grow and change and find their way, some go to college, and some don’t. Some find clarity for their future, while others find their future with a little less clarity. Some own a home, others pay rent, some find love, while others are still looking. Some have children, some have full time work…some have children and work, they are all so uniquely and wonderfully themselves!
All to say this, that I have learned instead of a fear of losing them as they grow up, I am gaining so many more. Janneke has married Matt, Noah married Lauren and Andrew has married Elle! In the last few weekends two more of my beautiful nieces said yes to the man that they each love. Olivia said yes to Sam and Anneliese said yes to Joseph! So excited for the four of you and your future. Your guys are lucky to have forever with each of you!
I love being an aunt to all of these amazing people, single or married, by blood or by love, we are stronger and better with all of you in our Borgdorff Bunch. ❤️ all of you with my whole heart! Aunt Trish
