I read this and am struck by how hopeful and refreshing it sounds. Could mature adults be willing to engage in disagreements in this way? Wouldn’t it be amazing if we weren’t focused on right and wrong but were willing to consider that we just saw things differently?
Perhaps all of us can practice how we engage this skill…what percentage of the time are we listening to understand the other person’s perspective instead of proving our point or being right?
I hope you experience multiple times every day the feeling when you talk stuff out with someone, and you both become aware that neither of you was wrong. You just saw things differently!
Celebrate that feeling every time it happens! ❤️ trish
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