So often, we strive to become something or someone. Becoming often includes changing, adding, reshaping, or striving for change in small ways or sometimes experimenting with more significant changes. Over the years, these changes can cause people to lose their sense of self. Sometimes, it is in the smallest of ways and other times; they may feel unrecognizable through their own eyes or the eyes of others.
So, I invite you to consider the process of unbecoming instead of becoming. What would you want to unbecome? Can you name one or two things you took on and what you hoped for? If you let that go, what part of the real you would be freed?
As I worked through this over the years, I realized I took on the role of someone who would agree not to cause waves. In unbecoming, I learned to use my voice, and I became a truth speaker. That is just one example. Feel free to share ways that you too are/have been unbecoming!
Keep becoming your true self each and every day! ❤️trish
