I come from a culture that values strengths more than struggles. Although this mindset can be very beneficial, I also recognize that it has limited our willingness and ability to speak about our vulnerabilities and weaknesses.
So, when I came across this quote today, it caused me to pause and wonder: How do we surrender to the process if we are not honest about what we need? I must be able to acknowledge and name my vulnerability and weakness to move into healing these tender and broken spaces.
My family has experienced so much good change in the last 25 years. I am grateful that we all are more willing to name what is not working and share a willingness to explore what change would look like. It is not always simple or easy, but I do find that it keeps us moving towards being healthier individuals.
I wonder where your thoughts wander as you consider the quote above. Can you name where you or your community needs healing? Can you begin to consider what it means to surrender to the process? I believe that healing starts when we name the areas we struggle with. This is not always done in a professional setting. Sometimes, it is simply sitting with someone who can listen well and reflect on your words. Sometimes, surrendering to the healing process requires pursuing professional help. I am a firm believer in “trusting your gut.” I believe what you need will become apparent as you act courageously and remain open to your healing journey.
I have had well-meaning people tell me what they think I need. I have not found them to be the most helpful or even accurate. I believe God speaks to us in our guts, and if you listen to yours, you will find enough clarity to take the next step. God will use others, and listening is essential, but hearing God will resonate in your heart, soul, and gut!
Be courageous and be honest. You and your community will be better for it!
❤️ Trish
